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Preventing Cyberbulling When Your Child has ADHD
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It used to be if your child was bullied, she could come home and get away from her tormentors. Technology has changed this—cell phones, tablets, and social media can now allow the bully to reach your child wherever she is, at home as well as in school.
Children affected by ADHD are at a greater
risk of being bullied
by peers. Difficulties with social interactions, keeping and making friends, and academic struggles can single a child out.
Whereas traditional schoolyard teasing happens face-to-face and can be dealt with in real time, online bullying can feel even more cruel because it is “public” and can be seen by all your child’s peers and beyond. Online bullying has the potential to go viral, and can quickly become overwhelming. It is no longer a limited interaction between two people or a small group, other people who know your child can see online comments or photos. Those comments or images can be passed along to people your child doesn’t know, magnifying the impact. Bullies can hide behind a disguise, posing as someone your child knows or as a new “friend” she has met online.
Parents need to learn about the dangers of bullying and cyberbullying and how to help their children understand the differences between appropriate teasing and bullying. You can make a difference in preventing bullying and helping your child navigate the experience of having been bullied.
The difference between teasing and bullying
Teasing is often a part of growing up. It can be friendly and intended to strengthen relationships or influence someone’s behavior. It can also become negative, harsh, or cruel. When does it cross the line to bullying?
Children who are teased can often influence whether the behavior stops. When the teaser recognizes that her friend or peer is upset, she stops her behavior. In contrast, a bully intends to be hurtful or threatening toward her victim, to either cause the other person to be embarrassed or to make the bully look better in some way. Bullies frequently intensify their behavior when they realize their victims are upset or hurt.
From bullying to cyberbullying
is any unwanted aggressive behavior that involves a power imbalance and is repeated multiple times or is highly likely to be repeated. A recent
survey of students
between grades 6-12 in the United States found that 28 percent have been bullied, while more than 70 percent witnessed bullying. Of those who experienced bullying, only 30 percent of students reported it to an adult. When an adult did intervene and address a bullying incident, the bullying stopped 57 percent of the time.
Cyberbullying takes place through electronic sources like texting, social media, or posting videos or pictures online, though it frequently begins in real life encounters. It can be done by sending messages or pictures directly to the victim, or indirectly by stealing passwords or hacking into someone’s account, posing as the victim and posting negative messages. In other situations, information or images of the person who is bullied are passed to other people, or the person is discussed among others online in cruel or degrading ways.
Social media is irresistible to teenagers. In 2015, 92 percent of teens between 13-17
reported going online
daily, while 24 percent of those reported going online constantly.
While teens have always looked for ways to fit in, social media now provides a way to measure how well they fit in—and they are responding to it. A study in
shows that when teens viewed pictures with more “likes” than others, or viewed their own pictures that had been “liked,” they experienced a greater response in the reward centers of their brains than when they viewed pictures with fewer “likes.”
Signs that a cyberbully is targeting your child
Bullying can cause serious mental health difficulties for your child. These can include anxiety and depression, sleep challenges, a loss of interest in activities she once enjoyed, and challenges at school, either academically and/or socially. When intense feelings of loneliness, worthlessness, and hopelessness take over, it can lead to a risk of suicide for some teens.
reports most teens who are bullied do not engage in suicidal behaviors unless there are other factors involved. For more about the issues that contribute to suicide risk, visit
Violence Prevention Works
ADHD Can Increase Risks from Depression
Red flags that may indicate your child is a victim of cyberbullying include:
Suddenly not using her cellphone or tablet
Appearing uneasy or nervous with her cellphone or tablet
Is apprehensive about going to school or outside in general
Appearing angry, depressed or frustrated after going online
For more information and warning signs, including signs that your child may be cyberbullying others:
Cyberbullying Research Center’s Warning Signs
Tips to combat cyberbullying
Learning more about bullying and teaching your children about teasing, bullying, and cyberbullying before it happens is key for prevention. If you are concerned that bullying is an issue for your child, here are some tools for addressing it:
Talk with your child, and listen well.
The safety of your child, and her ability to feel safe, is the highest priority. Your child needs to know that you are concerned about her and that you have the same goal she does—ending the cyberbullying. Ask your child what is going on. Be patient and calm. Learn as much as you can about the situation, the context and what steps your child has taken. Don’t minimize the situation or the actions of the bully.
Work with the school.
Each school has policies for managing bullying, and most include cyberbullying. Schedule a meeting with the administrators to discuss the issue and the actions they will take to investigate the situation and develop an appropriate response.
Contact the content provider.
All legitimate service providers have Terms of Service agreements that prohibit cyberbullying. Even if your child can’t identify who is bullying her, contact the relevant provider and report the incidents.
Get counseling for your child, if needed.
Some children will need help addressing their feelings about being bullied, and may be more comfortable discussing it with a mental health provider.
Implement preventive measures.
Set up privacy controls for your child’s devices and apps to prevent contact from the bully. Encourage your child to discuss new occurrences with you as soon as they happen, before they can escalate.
—Adapted from the Cyberbullying Research Center’s
What To Do When Your Child is Cyberbullied: Top Ten Tips for Parents
Moving past bullying
Cyberbullying can have a profound effect on your child’s life, and is more likely to happen if your child is affected by ADHD. You can help your child learn about cyberbullying and develop steps she can take to address it when it occurs. When your child knows you take the situation seriously and that you don’t blame her for what has happened, she will have a better chance of moving past the experience and developing healthy friendships.
Violence Prevention Works!
The Cyberbullying Research Center
Megan Meier Foundation
The Bully Cycle and ADHD
Bullying Prevention and Intervention
Has your child been bullied? How did you help her to resolve the situation?
Cyberbullies can follow your child through social media—so nowhere is safe from the bully! You can take steps to address bullying and help your child with ADHD create healthy friendships. Keep reading for what you can do.
This article appeared in
June 22, 2017.
The information provided on this website was supported by Cooperative Agreement Number NU38DD005376 funded by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). Its contents are solely the responsibility of the authors and do not necessarily represent the official views of the CDC or the Department of Health and Human Services.